Monday, January 19, 2026

MLK Day

I hope by the time you read this that our world (your world) is in a better place than it is today 🙏. There’s so much polarization and misinformation and we can’t respectfully disagree anymore because everyone takes disagreement as an attack.


Culture shouldn’t belong to any group. It’s something that shared and celebrated. I heard a black politician complain that a white republican was quoting MLK. It’s ironic that she would complain about someone exercising their freedom of speech. Anywho, I pray for your future. Hopefully mommy stops throwing recycling and green waste into the trash…

Sunday, January 18, 2026

Rosauro Resort

I didn’t get to blog about it yesterday, but I’ll mention it today. You got to go to The Rosauros’ house. Emma was so nice to you. Mommy thinks uncle Mario may be annoyed with you, but I don’t think so. I can ask him…

Cookies broken, photo to come of you at the Rosauros.

Anyhow, I know the Rosauros live far, but I hope you feel it’s worth the effort. That’s life. You need to make sure you put in effort for things that are worth it and don’t waste your time with things that are not.

Saturday, January 17, 2026

🦅 and 🐤

I got to golf today. I got an eagle and a birdie, but I really should have gotten more. 

(I used this soup base after 5 years 😂)

Anyhow, it was nice to get out and I haven’t been lucky enough to have an eagle in a while. Today was a good reminder that you have to keep persevering because luck is something you need and you make. You get a long break from So this weekend so I hope you enjoy it, but you don’t get used to it and regress like before 🙏. 

Friday, January 16, 2026

TGIF

Do you miss going to My Gym during the week? It seems like you don’t really like going anywhere. Sorry. Anyhow, I haven’t taken many photos lately, so this is a random one.

(waiting for PG&E and HVAC guy)

It’s nice that you like to be at home, but I feel bad you don’t get to take advantage of the places we go and could go. But I guess it goes back to my own experience with my parents. They wanted what was best for me, but what I felt was best for me was different and that’s okay. Hopefully it’s the same for you too 🙏.

Thursday, January 15, 2026

Khon

That’s how your Uncle Thang described your action. You keep making up every reason on why you don’t want to go to So. Maybe it really is cause you miss us or they don’t have monster trucks there…


I also don’t know why you’re always hiding when no one is looking for you or us. You also keep saying sorry, but not changing your behavior. It’s very perplexing. So are you feeling sorry for me that I have to deal with you? Empathy as opposed to conciliatory?

Wednesday, January 14, 2026

Pay Day

Part one. Part two tomorrow. How you look when you got your cupcake the other day is kinda how I feel when I get paid. Not cause I plan to go on a shopping spree, but instead I feel closer to my financial goals. One check at a time. 


Money will be an important part of your life, but it’s important that you don’t make it your life. Almost as equally important is that, just like time, you spend your money wisely. Early on, you’ll focus on things. Hopefully soon, you’ll learn about people and experiences.

Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Daddy Daycare?

Wasn’t planned, but that’s how life goes sometimes. I’m just glad that my work allowed me the flexibility to have you home today. Hopefully we’re not ruining you further 🙏.


You’ve been repeating actions and words lately when you said you wouldn’t. I really don’t know if you understand or not, but saying sorry doesn’t make it better. Sorry is the beginning. What makes it better is what you say and do after saying sorry. 

MLK Day

I hope by the time you read this that our world (your world) is in a better place than it is today 🙏. There’s so much polarization and misi...