Sunday, December 15, 2024

Safety Vinh

We want to prevent bandaids. I know you like it, but we don’t want you to get hurt. So this is what we have to do sometimes until you know better.


You like to fall down a lot. Hopefully you don’t fall down for reals very often. You have been not the best in public recently, so I really hope you do better. Image isn’t everything, but it does impact how people respond to you. We don’t want you to have a bad response…

Saturday, December 14, 2024

Who’s This?

It’s Vinh. Today you woke up and asked me to take you downstairs and then you fell back asleep for one hour. But it’s nice so that your mommy could sleep for another hour too. I wonder how long you would have slept if I kept holding you…


We won’t know cause we always got things to do like school and My Gym. Tomorrow My Gym is at 10. I wished you’d slept faster for your nap though. We have to go to church in a few hours…

Friday, December 13, 2024

Lucky 🍀

I don’t think I ever got to eat out growing up. On a rare occasion, grandpa would take me to McDonald’s after church or if we had a relative visiting and they wanted to ear out (very rare). In that sense, you are very lucky to have access to eating out as often as we do.


Additionally, I didn’t have access to the variety of food you have. I don’t think I ever had any yogurt growing up. Grandpa only bought some not so tasty walnut flavored ice cream. You are very lucky. In many ways, but definitely when it comes to food. That’s why it’s so sad and frustrating when you don’t eat. Please be better. 🙏 

Thursday, December 12, 2024

The Naughty List

You hit Ms. Sana today, not good sir. Not good. You’re lucky she’s so nice. But if you keep acting this way, it’s not gonna matter how cute you are. No one is gonna like you.

Next time we’ll take you home. My Gym is a privilege, not a right. It’s better that you learn that sooner than later. 

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

Bye 👋 Ong Ba Ngoai

They went home today. You said see them tomorrow when you left this morning, but little did you know, that would not be the case.


I know you’ll miss being spoiled and the extra attention, but it’ll be nice to get you back into a reasonable routine and maybe even get you potty trained. Even without them here, you still have tons of people, including your parents, who will continue to love you very much. You’ll be okay. 

Monday, December 9, 2024

Poof 💨 It’s Done

Ong Ba ngoai are going home tomorrow. Today is your last night to fight with Ba. Tomorrow morning is your last chance to wake up Ong. Maybe have Ba feed you. I really hope you’ll be okay when they leave. 


It’s gonna be a hard adjustment since they’ll be gone and we’re gonna need to get you into a better routine. Please cooperate and know this is the best for everyone involved. 🙏 

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Honesty

For all bad things you do at least you’re honest. Sometimes it’d be better it you lied lol. You made the most honest face when mommy made you try her che.


Too bad you lied about wanting to sleep here, but at least you slept eventually. Anyhow, it’s only 2 more days with Ong Ba. Please be nicer to Ba before she goes. 🙏 

Meltdowns

I heard that we should let you meltdown and then talk about your feelings, but sometimes it’s frustrating. Today everything seemed fine unti...