For our family. Sorry it’s not your fault and you can’t protect yourself…
We’re sorry we couldn’t protect you. Sadly this won’t be the last time we fail you. Please forgive us and grow to be resilient and independent. So far you’ve been a real champ and I’m proud of your ability to overcome obstacles. Hopefully this will make you a better person for it and not be long term symptoms.
With just Daddy and you. Mommy likes to sleep, but also you woke up a lot last night. Did you have some milk tea? I think it’s the mango mommy let you have…
Anyhow, please don’t take it personal that I drop you off at daycare. Unfortunately, no one wants us to win the lottery, so I have to keep working and mom needs her sleep. Good thing today is Sunday 😂.
For some reason your pants were really high today that I thought you were wearing a bra went I felt the waistband on the back side.
Anyhow, I’m sorry the handyman is working today in garage. He’s making a lot of noise that’s startling you and messing with your sleep schedule. Hopefully they’ll be gone by the time your mom gets home. This is us chilling.
Wow, you were so unhappy while pooping today. Poor Aunty Suzy was in the middle of changing your diaper when you were pooping…
Hopefully you don’t get your mom’s poop face long term. 🙏 Tomorrow I will likely have to be at work the whole day. At first I was worried, but I just realized that Aunty Suzy did just fine with you Monday. Let’s repeat that okay?
Someone is being lazy today. Funny because you’re always so active when I leave you alone you always roll…
I sure hope we’re being too cautious about your conditions and development rather than it being something serious. I am hopefully since we didn’t know about any of these things and everyone seems to be okay. Let’s hope you’re okay too.
The days until you start daycare. It’s gonna be bittersweet and scary. But it’s one of those things we have to do because we can’t expect nor do we have a reasonable alternative.
Not a great photo, but this is me trying to blog while you sleep even though I’m really tired too. I don’t know how your routine will change, but I expect to still have these moments on a regular after daycare. We’ll just have to wait and see.
In your honor today, we got boba. Just kidding, I kinda just wanted boba and can’t guarantee I would get it tomorrow so I figured I’d get it now and I didn’t get one last week.
Today you were a little cranky with Chi Oanh, but you were okay with Aunty Suzy. I sure hope you get along with whoever has to care for you at daycare and I hope they’re not mean or bad to you.
You like to cry all the time. You like to cry when we don’t feed you. You like to cry when we try to feed you. Why? Cause you’re a cry baby boba. Cry baby boba. Cry baby boba. All the time. Including last night when we were meeting with our friends.
I only pretend cry. But you cry cry. Anyhow, you’re gonna need to figure that out soon. I won’t always be there to calm you down, unless I win the lottery. Daycare is coming soon. So please, please, be a smile baby boba.
Unfortunately, there wasn’t any boba except for you son. You did real good today, except the car ride with grandma. Hopefully it’s just her.
She loves you in her own way so you should be nice to her. In the world we live in now, we have to appreciate the time we have with others because we aren’t guaranteed any time. I appreciate all the time I have with you, even if it’s a lot of work.
Hopefully something good with a P. Your Aunty Dina wants you to become president. Your mom wants you to become a priest, which could lead to you becoming the Pope. I just want you to be happy and take care of yourself and not hurt anyone.
So really, there’s no pressure. Don’t worry about Aunty Dina or your mom. At the end of the day, we gave you life but because we wanted to control you, but because we felt we could give you a good life. You make of it what you will. Be happy, be good.
This time…So maybe you’re just angry sometimes. You get that from your mom. It’s okay. Eventually you’ll need to learn what to do with all that anger in a productive manner.
Don’t be mean to Aunty Suzy. She’s really nice to you and you’re only gonna get to see her for a few more weeks if you’re lucky. Then you’re really gonna miss her while you’re at daycare and she will have a different job…
I had a topic in mind today about there being tons of support for you outside mom and I should you ever need it for feel more comfortable. Like your Uncle Eric. But as I was playing and fathering you today, you rolled over to your right on your own and you even rolled back onto your back.
Seems like you made a huge jump after your appointment today. You can even sit up a little. But I saw you rub your ear. I hope you’re okay. Mommy and Suzy will hopefully find out tomorrow.
Hope you’re doing well. I can’t tell if you hate Mondays, Dina, or something else, but I pray that it’s not something Dina is doing. Anyhow, I need to print a picture of you for my office at work.
After reflecting on your old photos, I can honestly say that you’re much cuter now than you were back then. I guess I was blinded by our bond as father and son. Hoping when I look back to these days, I won’t be making the same mistake. Www.
You went to church again today. It’s too early to tell, but so far so good. I think your mom did a great job of feeding you late enough that you shouldn’t need a meal until we get home.
Although I wonder if she checked your diaper. I guess there’s always next time to get it all right. At least were making progress and weren’t late to mass today. We say Co Lien and Chu Tuyen. Maybe we’ll see Chi Anh (Chi Oanh is working). Sorry you didn’t get to go to Costco today….
You’re very lucky to have so many people in your life that like you and want to play with you. Today you got to meet Oanh and remeet Anh. Your Aunty Vina’s nieces. They played with you all day today so mommy and daddy could work.
I wanted to take a picture, but didn’t want to make it awkward. So here’s a random snap from the security camera. It doesn’t capture their enthusiasm for you. I hope you are enjoying it, cause it’s daycare coming soon…www
I always blog about us being blessed, but it’s true and we’re constantly reminded of that. Unfortunately, I think the true understanding of how blessed will be hard to realize without experience (wisdom).
This is what your cousin brought to us. She won’t take our money. She lugged it from California to Florida and back. And she came to visit you. You didn’t get to enjoy any of this besides the toy, but it’s just a reminder of the people in your life that care about you besides mom and me.
It’s been non stopping raining for a while now. But you probably haven’t noticed. You’ve been safe indoors and the times you go out it’s been nicer.
It’s gonna be raining for a while longer, but fortunately you don’t have any plans to go out besides church next week. Maybe you’ll get lucky and it will clear up just for you. It’s often said that God loves children…
It’s your first new year. You made it. Hoping for many more new years to come. It’s too bad we don’t remember what happened to us during this point in our lives. I hope you would look back fondly and appreciate it all.
I’ve made a vow to be better in 2023. I need to be better for both you and mom. Can’t look back and know I didn’t do everything I could to give you guys the best of me. #noregrets
You’ve got Lucas beat. I hope you keep it that way. Your mom may not think so, but I know so and I’m sure most would agree. That being said,...
